Some well-meaning people like to dish advice, even though you’re all grown up.  Case in point.  I biked to the gym today, without wearing a helmet.  An elderly gentleman stopped me and said “Where’s your helmet?” He then, in a condescending tone, went on to say that he always wanted to shake the hand of an organ donor. I did shake and promised him a kidney, if he ever needed one.  I know he meant well but it was as annoying as those pro-nursing moms who want to ban the bottle for everyone else.